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My Own Marriage Transformation
From the brink of divorce to madly in love again - buying our first home and having a baby, in less than 2 years!
I'm a Laura Doyle certified Relationship Coach, trained in the exact method that saved my marriage, and 15K others over the last 20 years!
The best credientials are first-hand!
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I had a multi-6 figure sales career, managed our home, cooked, planned fun outings and holidays, and so much more.
But my husband didn’t seem to care, saying things like, “I never asked you to do that,” or “Relax,” or simply ignoring my efforts entirely.
My once charming, playful, and romantic French husband was pulling away, and I had no idea why or what to do.
He became less affectionate, disinterested in conversation, indifferent, and disengaged.
I tried so hard to please him, had long tearful talks about all I did for us and what I needed from him - things would improve, then we'd go backwards.
In this difficult place lasting a good couple of years, I lost myself.
I became lonely, stressed, and resentful, blaming my husband for my unhappiness, when in truth, I had changed.
My story
2020: I was no longer the woman my husband fell in love with
In my mind I did "everything", but my husband didn't appreciate me
Giving advice, but I was CRITICAL
Smart, but I was CONDESCENDING
Concerned, but I was DISTRUSTFUL
Taking care of him, but I was MOTHERING
Opinionated, but I was DISRESPECTFUL
Giving advice, but I was critical
Smart, but I was condescending
Concerned, but I was distrustful
Taking care of him, but I was smothering
Opinionated, but I was disrespectful
Sound familiar? I know, it's a difficult realization.
But it means you have all the power to fix your marriage!
My painful realisation...
I read the book and realised my behaviour had pushed my husband away
Contemplating divorce, I found a relationship book that completely transformed ME, and my marriage.
It was so powerful that I became a Certified Relationship Coach in this method, which has saved 15,000 marriages over 20+ years!
With my husband I thought I was....
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I just had to get certified in this work - it's magic!
The 2 most important lessons this method taught me?
(1) we are responsible for our own happiness
(2) To Mind my own business!
My happily ever after...
Everything changed February of 2020 on a work trip in NYC - I'll never forget sitting on my hotel bed, overlooking the beautiful city, googling marriage advice.
That’s when I discovered Laura Doyle. Reading her book was a dagger to my heart - I realised my husband's behaviour was in response to me!
Determined to save our marriage, I applied Laura Doyle's "Six Intimacy Skills", and got intentional with my marriage.
The results were incredible - we fell back in love, stronger than ever. Intimacy, connection, and laughter returned, along with a baby and a new home!
I wasn't the fun, independent woman he fell in love with.
I'd become critical and controlling, undermining his role as a husband and autonomy as a person.
My husband became the affectionate, doting man I always wanted (he always was).
Now, I feel loved, appreciated, and completely taken care of - and you can too. Let me show you how!
I stopped doing "everything"
to focus on what matters
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I am 100% RESPONSIBLE FOR MY HAPPINESS
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i invest time and energy into my
mind, heart, body, and spirit
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i work on my personal development,
hobbies, goals, and dreams
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My entire life has dramatically improved
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My marriage, body, relationships,
spirituality, career, all of it
Intentional Living
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Life & Relationship Coaching Revolutionised my Life
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Laura Doyle's 6 Intimacy Skills
Make your marriage playful, connected, intimate, and peaceful - without your husband's conscious effort!
These skills transformed my marriage and improved every part of my life...
they are invaluable!
the skills
- "Self care" is about taking responsibility for your own happiness and well-being
- It’s investing in your mind, body, heart, and soul with activities that bring you joy, energy, and emotional resilience
- Replenishing yourself allows you to show up with more presence in every area of life
- Express "Gratitude" to better appreciate the positive things your husband does - big or small; express this to him 3 times a day
- The results are feeling happier and more fulfilled in your marriage (and life!), and your husband feeling loved!
- And... the huge benefit of inspiring your husband to do more, which is what you really want, right?!
- "Receiving" is about graciously accepting help, gifts, or compliments from your partner without criticism or deflection
- This makes them feel valued and capable, able to please you
- Receiving strengthens your bond and encourages more love and generosity!
- "Respect" is about honouring your husband as an individual - acknowledging his right to his own thoughts, decisions, and abilities
- It means listening to him without unsolicited advice, criticism, or dismissal
- It shows you value his perspective, judgement, and autonomy, building emotional safety and connection
- Relinquishing control is about letting go of the need to manage or dictate every aspect of your relationship, household, children, and especially your husband’s responsibilities
- Often, we want more help from our partners but don’t realise that our controlling tendencies prevent them from stepping up
- By trusting your husband’s decisions and giving him space to contribute, you'll invite more support and engagement from him
Confession – this one is the hardest for me!
Control makes me feel safe, but I’ve learned to trust my husband and his unique, wonderful way of doing things.
I remind myself with him and everyone else,
“There are many ways up the mountain!”
- Being vulnerable means opening your heart and letting yourself be seen emotionally
- Sharing your true feelings, insecurities, and desires with your partner, even when it feels uncomfortable
- It’s also about letting him comfort and support you, instead of always being strong or in control
The 6 intimacy skills?
I’m all in - every single day!
Not always perfect, and not always easy...
but the rewards are 100% worth it
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Adriana is a hugely talented coach. Her warmth and positivity instills hope. She always listens carefully and without judgment.
She is insightful and knowledgeable with helpful suggestions, ideas, and advice in a way that is inspiring and empowering.
She’s incredible, I recommend her to any woman wanting to bring about more happiness for themselves and in their relationship.
Emma,
uk
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I always look forward to my sessions with Adriana. She is consistently interested in my journey and has the most incredible gift for deep listening. She hears every word I say, as well as messages that are unsaid.
She understands my view, while gently expanding it in a most natural way. With her powerful questions, I discovered the confidence to seek what I most desired in various aspects of my life. Her way of being is simply delightful.
karissa,
usa
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I LOVE my coaching with Adriana! She’s incredible! She gives me so many things to ponder on. We talk about lots of things but one of them is exercising.
What she shares inspires me, and guess what? I went on a hike for 2 hours today! I came back dripping with sweat and smiling from ear to ear!
Lindsey,
usa
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rochelle,
usa
Adriana is a shining star! I felt such ease during our sessions. She does this in an open, loving and supportive way. It’s her magic.
She helped me overcome a challenge I held on to for 30 years. In one hour I came further than any other method I've tried. She helped me tremendously in how I show up in my marriage. Both feet in. That feels amazing.
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Adriana is a very enthusiastic and encouraging coach. She presents ideas well and encourages me to do my best.
I really get a lot of ideas from these sessions.
It is a delight to work with you. Much appreciated.
myra,
india
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